How To Tell If Your Wife or Girlfriend Has Narcissistic Personality Disorder
Upon meeting a woman with narcissistic personality disorder you may feel you have met ‘your princess'. She is charming, generous, well-groomed and incredibly complimentary and interested in your life. Initially narcissistic women seem to have it all going on, and many menfeel spell-bound in her presence.
A woman with narcissistic personality disorder is generally very materialistic. She likes to wear the right labels, discuss exotic holiday destinations, stay at the top hotels and dreams about (or does) drive a late model sports car. Her narcissistic tendenciesappear when you discover she expects special treatment from others, is haughty, judgemental and critical of people that she believes are ‘not up to scratch'.
Over time the narcissistic personality traits will start appearing thick and fast. Even though yournarcissistic lover can be glorious as the consummated actress, granting you your every need (often sexually), she is also jealous, possessive, insecure and threatened by anything or anyone in your life that she believes is taking your attention away from her.
Often you will see the cracks, when there is no admiring audience to woo for narcissistic supply. She will be moody, defensive, irritable and often downright nasty. Like her male narcissistic counterpart the narcissistic female is an expert in mining energy and resources and knowing which buttons to push in order to get her own way.
Narcissistic females latch on to guys that give, guys that have resources and guys that feel they need to provide in order to feel important and loved. The narcissistic female knows how to guilt her man, keep him hooked by threatening to leave, disappearing and then reappearing in his life, and granting him all sorts of promises that keep him snared in her web. Like all narcissistic individuals, a female with narcissistic personality disorder gets a kick out of causing emotional distress to love partners at their weakest point. If he suffers from low self-esteem she will attack him at that level. If he fears being abandoned she will leave often.This grants her the ‘high' of being able to project pain onto another, emotionally maim and secure the narcissistic drug of ‘being special' as a result. Once having established this routine, the narcissistic female will do whatever it takes to ensure the entrapment so her game can continue.
Your wife or girlfriend with narcissistic personality disorder does not take responsibility for her poor behaviour. She is not accountable and twists and turns facts to make her behaviour your fault. Some of her arsenal, rather than admit fault, is to use examples against you, outrageously lie, project, blame and scapegoat you or other people.
If you are in a relationship with a woman who has narcissistic tendencies you will feel anxious and will suffer immense emotional pain. Marrying a narcissistic woman, merging finances with her and having children with her is a recipe for disaster, which may take a great deal of therapy and court cases to sort out. Like all narcissistic individuals, when separating, vengeance and punishment is high on the agenda, and you, your finances and your children may suffer immensely.
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